Who makes that decision about what or who is good?
Is it if there are no kids at risk, no relatives divorced, no sister that dresses too trendy, no siblings in any Out-Of-NY-Schools? Who decided that those things render a family "different" "off beat" or "not good"?
Or is it a "Good" family, home, boy, because they do everything like everyone else?
Nothing out of the ordinary?
Why are we so afraid of people and families who are a bit different?
It's like an unpredictable popularity game; even if the details all look the same, you never who is going to be "in" and who isn't.